Tuesday, January 14, 2014

Attracting True Romance



Attracting true romance by building your self esteem and self value…..

Jill thinks like a man and looks like Marilyn Monroe.  Quite a combination!  She has a brilliant mind for numbers and makes a great operations manager.  Once she makes up her mind swift action follows.  For Jill graduating from high school during an era that programmed women for a life modeling June Cleaver or Harriet Nelson meant frustration and entrapment.  There wasn’t a roll model for talent and energy like Jill’s  (maybe there still isn’t.  Hmmm, about the closest I could come would be Opra Winfry. Dynamic , energetic, multidimensional, and very caring.)  To add to her frustration it was easy to attract men but, rarely could one hold her interest or his ego would be threatened by her dynamic energy.  She married shortly after high school to a man who fit all the socio-economic and religious molds that pleased her parents and soon had two boys and a husband who became very successful and very abusive.  When a mans’ ego is threatened he might do anything to maintain dominance.  She finally ran for her life. 
She found work as a beauty salon marketing and operations manager. As they began to recognize her true talents she soon was promoted to manager of all six salons.  She thrived on all the action and complexity of this management position and she began to recognize her talents and what really excited and motivated her.  She loved fine things and knew that working like this was never going to give her the life she had envisioned for herself.  She began searching deeper and studying metaphysics. She grew spiritually and in wisdom about the true meaning of life.  Soon she was no longer willing to be involved with men at a superficial level and began creating her life-mate.  She realized that after her husband she had built a wall between herself and men and now she wanted to let just one very special man in and she knew she had to heal herself first and begin to build trust within herself to trust herself to KNOW who was the right man when he showed up.  She read books on “Creating Your Ideal Mate”, “Attracting Love” and every book she could get her hands on.  She wanted to fill her mind with the belief that she could NOW create a better relationship than she had ever had or ever seen.  The more she read about metaphysics and attraction the more she realized that she still had some internal discovery and re-creating within herself before  she would be able to receive this kind of totally loving man into her life and her heart.  She attended some seminars and surrounded herself with new friends who were devoted to their own self discovery  They supported each other into creating deeper more meaningful relationships and friendships as they all grew to embrace into their lives and live the principles of brotherly love and “do unto others as you would have them do unto you”. 

 THE LOVE LESSON HERE IS  that you must learn how to honor yourself and treat yourself with respect and love and tenderness before you will be able to treat others as good as you would like to be treated.   When you truly learn to treat yourself this good you will never allow anyone else to mistreat you and you will actually only attract people who will be in alignment with as good as you treat yourself.  She became very clear that she wanted a man of great spiritual depth and wisdom who walked his talk.   A man who would use these principles to make a difference in the world and took action.  A man she could trust completely because he truly honored and appreciated her.  He would see her talents and energy and integrate her into his life and they would thrive together because they balanced and supported each other in perfect harmony.  A man she could allow herself to surrender to love with.  A man who wanted to build an empire with her and who shared in her desire to make the world a better place to live by sharing their wealth with others and teaching others how to build their own empires.  One day she told her coach Sunni that,” I think I’m going to marry a short, pudgy Jewish man who works with money”.  (Now, if you ever saw Jill you would expect her to end up with a very tall and handsome man)  so, this was an interesting revelation.  Sure enough, a few weeks later some mutual friends introduced her to this exact man that she had seen in her vision.   It took a few years to work out some complications but, they have now been married for ten years and they continue to grow and GLOW together.   They truly honor and revere each other.  She pampers him and makes sure everything is just right for him to do what he does best and she has become his operations manager and home and in his business.  She is a brilliant asset to his already very successful life and he knows it and appreciates her and adores her.  He treats her like his Jewel…..and that’s exactly what he calls her.

Do you want to find the love of your life?   Contact Sunni about  the "21 days to love" class
or private coaching sessions if you are away from the Milwaukee, Wi. area.

Come to the Valentine's dance on Fri. Feb. 14  where you will meet all the people who are interested in the "laws of Attraction".  contact Sunni  www.sunniboehme.com 

She'll be leading her famous and fun  "Flirting with Life"   class  7pm -8pm before 
the dance  8pm to 11pm.

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